Category: Aging In Place

Connected to Trusted Advisors

Posted by Deborah Wilkinson

Member, Senior Resource Alliance Northwest

As a real estate broker, I found myself negotiating the sale of a home when my client was diagnosed for the second time with cancer.  In spite of age, the doctors had some hope that she could again beat it.  She, along with her family, were concerned about what would happen to the sale if she died before it was completed.   While there was a Will,  as it stood, there was no way to pass the assets on outside of probate which would interrupt the sale of the home.  We needed an attorney who specialized in estates and trusts.

 

For me, finding that knowledgeable and trusted advisor to refer was easy because I was already working with Stephanie Carter, a fellow member of Senior Resource Alliance NW (our group specializes in providing important services to the 55+ population and their families).  Stephanie responded immediately, scheduling the family for a meeting to review options.  Before that could happen, my client was hospitalized.  Stephanie put together all of the documents.

That signing took place at the hospital.  Being there, I could see the relief in my client’s face when she knew everything was taken care of for her two daughters.  Four days later, she died.

Dealing with the loss of loved ones and friends is extremely difficult.  Having affairs in order takes an incredible burden off their shoulders.  With the daughters, we are currently working to close the sale of their Mother’s home, and everything is progressing smoothly because of the action we took.

As a resource group, most of the work we do together is not so extreme or urgent, but what a relief it is to have the right people close by to get the job done; and quickly when needed.

Deborah Wilkinson, GRI, SRES, Oregon Principal Broker, Premiere Property Group, 5000 Meadows Road, Suite 150, Lake Oswego, OR 97035, (503)453-3597 (direct), (503) 670-9000 (office)
www.movingthroughyour life.com

 

Are You the Primary Caregiver of an Elderly Loved One?

Posted by Meredith Williamson

Member, Senior Resource Alliance Northwest

 

 

 

 

If you are the primary Caregiver for an elderly family member or friend and are feeling overwhelmed and stressed, you are not alone.  The primary Caregiver is generally responsible for maintaining two households, including:  shopping, cleaning, laundry, yard and house upkeep.  Additionally, they must arrange and transport their elderly loved one to multiple doctor appointments, ordering and managing medications, paying bills and balancing accounts.  It is mentally, emotionally and physically demanding.

Caregivers not only spend time at the doctor for their loved ones, they themselves experience health issuees at a greater rate than non-caregivers.  They also tend to lose time at work resulting in reduced salaries and benefits.

If you are the primary Caregiver of an elderly loved one, it is important that you take time for yourself, too.  Adult Day Programs offer respite for you and socialization for your loved one.  Other options such as a move to Senior Housing or In Home Care means the everyday things can be taken care of and you can spend more quality time with your loved one without bearing the weight of their care needs.

For more information about Senior Housing, Adult Day or other programs that are available, please call Choice Senior Services, LLC at 503-353-7870 or email help@choiceoregon.com.

www.ChoiceSeniorServices.com

 

 

Age in Place with Home Instead Senior Care – Beaverton Valley Times

Blog Post by Mike Brunt

Many of us are remodeling to age in place

Start with a safety assessment by a Home Instead caregiver

BY BY POLINA OLSEN

The Times, Nov 10, 2011

(news photo)

Nancy Watts and her dog Cruiser show off a set of wheelchair-friendly French doors that replaced single doors in her Beaverton home.

 

Nancy and Ivan Watts always said there’s no place like home.

That’s why moving to their one-level Beaverton house and remodeling for aging-in-place made sense. Experience with Ivan Watt’s elderly parents gave them insight. They started long before necessity dictated. Now both partially disabled, they find their comfortable home ready for them.

According to daughter Lynnae Rhoades, manager of Washington County Home Instead Senior Care, more than 90 percent of seniors want to remain at home. She helps people like her parents every day.

“If you let it go, you’ll get into an emergency situation and a fire drill,” she warned. “But, if you think ahead, you’ll have perspective and control.”

Control starts with a safety assessment by a Home Instead caregiver, Rhoades said. They look for trip hazards, like throw rugs and places where grab bars can help.

“We make it clear that grab bars should be installed by a professional. They need to be in the wall with studs. Seniors can rent or build a wheelchair ramp.

Rhoades believes falls are the greatest hazard. Often the elderly misjudge small things, like picking up their dog. Surprisingly, she finds they seldom fall down stairs.

“You’re taught since you were little that stairs are dangerous, and banisters are professionally installed,” she said. “But people don’t want to rearrange furniture, don’t want to use walkers, or don’t want to give up those throw rugs, and they end up falling. Bathtubs are the biggest problem. It gets unstable to stand on one foot to lift the other. Sometimes people get in the bathtub and can’t get out. They pull the towel rack off the wall because that’s how they usually support themselves. If they don’t have a medical alert or cell phone, they’re stuck until someone finds them.”

Rhoades’ advice is simple: “Don’t skimp on safety measures. Some people have the urge to do things partially. If you want to stay at home, plan and budget for each project, and have it completed well. Make sure grab bars are secure and doors are wide enough. There’s lift chairs, several kinds of walkers, you can look at putting railings on your bed. Both from studying research and knowing seniors, I can say they thrive and are much happier in their homes.”

Her mother, Nancy Watts, agrees. “Most things were not expensive,” she said. With Rhoades’ help, she and husband Ivan doubled door width by replacing single doors with attractive French doors. They removed the kitchen island so a wheelchair can pass and converted a little-used breakfast nook into a pantry complete with pullout shelves.

“Fortunately, the hall already was wide enough,” Watts said. They replaced the tub with a walk-in shower complete with a bench. A low toilet makes transfer easy.

The bedroom was also setup for the family. Sliding glass doors open to a hot tub complete with grab bars and lifts. The king-size hospital bed features separate controls on each side so one person can sit while the other lies flat. Even miniature pinchers Penny and Cruiser are set to age in place. A doggy staircase from the pet store makes it easy for them to climb up and cuddle on the bed.

 
TIPS FOR AN AGING-IN-PLACE REMODEL

1. Have grab bars professionally installed.

2. Remove throw rugs or choose models with non-slip backs.

3. Watch out for floor surfaces. Make sure carpet is low pile and tiles are non-slip.

4. Cover stairs with rough material. A light strip along each edge helps you see where each stair ends.

5. Replace the bathtub with a walk-in shower with a bench inside. Or install a bathtub slide board.

6. Don’t use ladders or stepstools.

7. Do use a grabber to reach lightweight objects on high shelves.

8. Keep it light: Think about installing motion sensor lights, and make sure the path from your garage to the house is well illuminated.

9. Pullout storage means no more crawling into cabinets.

10. Lever style handles on your doors and faucets may be easier to manage than knobs.

11. Have someone regularly check on you.

12. Use a medical alert service or carry a cell phone at all times. Remember, you designate whom the service calls first. The service will try a family member or neighbor before calling an ambulance, if you prefer.

13. Make sure your contractor is a certified aging-in-place specialist.

 

(For more information, or to find a certified aging in place specialist, visit portlandonline.com, type aging-in-place in the upper right corner search box, click the right arrow and then select Aging-In-Place Tools. Contact Washington County Home Instead Senior Care at 503-530-1527 or www.homeinstead.com/606.)

 

A Senior Safe Home for the Holidays

Post by Barbara Murphy

Member, Senior Resource Alliance Northwest

As you plan for your family gatherings this year, give some thought to how easy (or difficult) it is for everyone to enter and navigate around your home.  Has your brother-in-law with the trick knee been having a hard time with the front steps?  Remember the difficulty Grandma had using the bathroom last year?

This may be a good time to consider a safety assessment of your home.

Start at the entry.  Would a handrail make  your porch easier to reach?  Is the
door sill a trip hazard?

Go through each room and notice the other hazards.  Throw rugs and extension cords can be difficult for some people to step over.  Check the transitions between different floor coverings.

Are your door knobs and faucets easy to grip?  Lever handles on doors and faucets  make them much easier for everyone to use.

Should you add a grab bar or two in the bathroom?  If some of your guests will be staying overnight, they may need some extra help navigating the tub or shower.

If one of the gatherings is at the home of one of your older family members, take note of how easily they are getting around in their home.  This is a good time to assess their home as well.

Just a few minor professionally installed additions could make your home safer and help to make your holiday season even more enjoyable for all of your friends and family.

Barbara Murphy, CKD, CBD, CGR, CAPS, Designer/Consultant,
Neil Kelly Designers/Remodelers, Home Repair, New Homes,
15573 S.W. Bangy Road, Suite 100, Lake Oswego, OR  97035
Direct Line:  503.335.9296; Fax:  503.443.2170

 

Senior Resource Alliance NW – Professionals to Serve Your Senior Loved Ones

Blog Post by Mike Brunt

Those who have helped an aging loved one through the later years of life know that the romanticized picture of old age as sipping lemonade on a porch swing is a far stretch from the actual experience. The realities of aging force seniors and their family members to confront physical, emotional, logistical, financial, legal, and caregiving challenges that are hard to predict, even harder to accept, and impossible to completely avoid.

What is needed is a strong group of affiliated service providers who can provide needed services and confidently refer you to other resources you can trust…enter Senior Resource Alliance NW.

 

The Senior Resource Alliance NW was formed to be an inter-connected group of professionals in the Portland Metro Area who provide essential products and services to seniors and those who care for them.

If you are working with your aging mother on estate planning and advanced directives for health care, you may also be in need of a trusted provider of in-home caregiving services or home remodeling. Or, if you are working on moving your parents into an assisted living community, you may also need help with an estate sale or the physical process of downsizing and moving. If Medicare is your hot topic, you may also be looking for financial planning or information you can trust about reverse mortgages. Whatever your need may be, the Senior Resource Alliance NW is your source of friendly, reliable professionals who will be there for you when you need them most.

Areas of Expertise:

  • Counseling Services
  • Daily Money Management
  • Estate Planning & Elder Law
  • Financial Planning
  • Geriatric Care Management
  • Home Remodeling & Repair
  • In-Home Care
  • Insurance
  • Mortgages
  • Real Estate
  • Relocation Services
  • Senior Housing

 

2011-2012 Officers for the Group Are As Follows:

President: Barbara Murphy, Neil Kelly Company
Vice President of Marketing: Stephanie Carter, Draneas & Huglin, P.C.
Chair of Marketing: Mike Brunt, Home Instead Senior Care
Secretary & Chair of Membership: Kim Megorden, KARE Transitions, LLC
Treasurer: Sandra Wagner, Frazier Hunnicutt Financial

 

Contact Information for the Senior Resource Alliance NW:

WEB: www.sranw.com
PHONE: (503) 442-3864
EMAIL: info@sranw.com

 

“Your Home For A Lifetime” Fair and Seminar, May 21

Blog Post by Barbara Murphy, Interior Designer at Neil Kelly

You are cordially invited to attend a fair and seminar on Saturday, May 21 from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. The event, sponsored by Neil Kelly, is themed “Your Home for a Lifetime” and will focus on home designs for aging in place. The venue for the event is the Home Builder’s Association Education Center at 15555 Bangy Road in Lake Oswego.

Come learn about many elements of home design for senior living including bathrooms, kitchens, entry ways, heating, and air conditioning. Also, AARP will be there to present on cost-saving tips and other information about senior housing.

The event is supported by
Elders In Action
Senior Resource Alliance NW and
AARP Oregon

Downloadable Event Flyer

When Too Much Stuff Becomes a Household Hazard

Blog Post by Home Instead Senior Care offices in the Portland Metro Area

Breaking Point – When Too Much Stuff Becomes a Household Hazard

Those of us who spend any amount of time with seniors in their private homes or apartments know that most seniors find comfort in their familiar surroundings and treasured possessions. Although there is generally a natural tendency to accumulate things over a long period of time, seniors who have an especially hard time parting with their “stuff” can put themselves and their homes at risk.

“A lifetime accumulation of belongings combined with an influx of daily junk mail, bills, newspapers and magazines can quickly overwhelm seniors who are struggling physically, mentally, or emotionally,” said Paul Hogan, CEO and Co-Founder of the Home Instead Senior Care network.

The risks of overcluttered homes are many including slipping on loose papers, the threat of fire, and health effects of mold and mildew. I have been in the home of a senior who collected free food items that were donated to her local senior center. Her cupboards, counters, and multiple refrigerators and freezers were at maximum capacity and she had actually started stacking food on the floors. This kind of hoarding is obviously not a part of normal aging, but sometimes, the line between normal accumulation and pathological hoarding is hard to define.

Home Instead Senior Care has developed a public information campaign to address the problem of clutter creep. I really like the information because it goes beyond the idea of “just needing to clean up” and addresses the emotional attachments to things and the inability to organize that many seniors experience. Many times seniors’ objects have multi-generational significance to them and even help to tell their life stories. They can feel a strong responsibility to carry on the tradition and bequeath their things to others.

The web site for this public information campaign is called Breaking Point: Decoding the Problem of Seniors and Hoarding. Here you will find relevant and useful resources including the following:

  • “10 Reasons Seniors Hang On To Stuff”
  • “If Your Senior Won’t Let Go…”
  • “A Caregiver’s Guide to Spot Clutter Creep”
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    Also, here is a link to a recent article in the New York Times about this topic.

    Home Safety for Seniors with Alzheimer’s and Other Types of Dementia

    Blog Post by Mike Brunt

    Last month, a friend referred me to a web site with information and products to enhance the safety and comfort for people with dementia who are still living at home.

    http://www.thiscaringhome.org/

    My interest was piqued since a good number of my in-home care clients suffer from Alzheimer’s or other dementing illnesses. One of the main questions families have is how to make home a safe place when the aging loved one can’t be relied upon to exercise caution and good judgment.

    Dementia victims also often suffer from anxiety and fears that rob them of peace of mind and can contribute to other problems with their physical and mental health (blood pressure, heart issues, depression). I’ve observed that with dementia clients, one of the main goals is to prevent emotional escalations through distraction, re-direction, and also practical tools.

    This web site, www.thiscaringhome.org, is full of practical tools to help dementia clients (and their family or professional caregivers) get through the day more easily.

    Here are a few of my favorite finds from the site:

    • Bathing Outfit
      • This bathing outfit can restore dignity to the bathing experience while reducing agitation. This special waterproof bathing outfit has a wrap-around skirt and a bib-like top with a Velcro closure. The garment remains on during washing, while you, the caregiver, and the person, wash around and under it. Price is $30 for women and $20 for men.
    • Quilted, Machine-Washable Seat Pads
      • These quilted waterproof pads are made out of nylon and polyester and have a vinyl waterproof backing. Machine washable.May reduce embarrassment and shame that often occurs when regular incontinence pads are used. Available in several colors. This gives you more options to choose a color that also contrasts with the floor color. This make’s the seat more visible to people with dementia, as many have problems with depth perception. Price is $20
    • 5 Common Environmental Triggers for Agitation
      • People with dementia are extremely sensitive to their surroundings. But not everyone is bothered by the same stimuli or events, so the first step is to find out what’s upsetting the person you care for. The next time the person is agitated, take a look at or think back to exactly what happened just before they got agitated. Then you can remove or change the trigger(s) and the associated agitation. You’ll both experience less stress and, hopefully, a calmer day. Here are five common environmental triggers known to cause agitation in persons with dementia… 

     

    The site also has tips from experts such as “Sometimes it’s small things, like a grandchild giving a safety product as a gift, that makes all the difference in how well a product is received.”

    As a final note, I think this is a great resource that I think will come in handy for anyone working with senior loved ones with Alzheimer’s or other dementing illnesses.

    If you have found other products or tips that were effective for dementia care at home, please comment on this blog post.